My Toddler Had a Breath Holding Spell and It Was Scary AF

There’s numerous on-the-job studying whenever you’re a dad or mum of a toddler. (Or, in my case, two toddlers!)

Over time you learn to discover the right sippy cup, purchase garments they’ll truly put on, coerce them to depart the home on time, diffuse tantrums —  , regular on a regular basis stuff.

However, as I not too long ago realized, you additionally turn out to be an professional in sure areas you DID NOT SEE COMING.

Take, for instance, a typical Wednesday night with household. We had my dad and mom over for dinner, all the children have been fortunately taking part in, and out of nowhere one in every of my twin daughters had a breath holding spell (which, I knew nothing about and had by no means even heard of), and it freaked us all out.

Since delivery, my daughter has carried out what we check with as a “silent cry.” Principally, when she will get extraordinarily upset, she’ll begin to cry and no sound will come out for a pair seconds. And, then, she lets that cry rip. It’s one thing we’re used to along with her — and any time she does it, we all know that she’s not simply kinda upset; she’s SUPER upset.

So, on this night, she was taking part in with my older daughter, and, for some motive (we’re nonetheless not precisely certain what set her off different than simply being a toddler), she started the silent cry. I used to be standing proper subsequent to her, so I reached down to choose her up and luxury her, solely to note that not solely was she nonetheless doing the silent cry, but additionally that her lips had turned blue. Actually, the subsequent second her entire face was blue. One other second later, she had fainted and was limp in my arms.

Not figuring out that breath holding was a factor, I used to be instantly afraid that she was choking or having a seizure. My dad and mom have been actually grabbing their telephones to dial 911 as my husband whacked her on her again, and I swept her mouth and throat for any meals. From that, she began coughing and crying. The entire thing took about 30 seconds, if that.

It was insane. And, scary AF.

She fairly rapidly returned to appearing regular, so we ended up not calling 911, and as a substitute instantly took her to pressing care the place her pediatrician identified it as a breath holding spell, which is THANKFULLY a reasonably benign factor, however one thing I had by no means heard of earlier than. (Notice: in case your youngster does this — particularly the primary time — DEFINITELY go see their pediatrician and have every thing checked out ASAP.)

And, now you higher imagine I do know loads about them! Listed here are a couple of of a very powerful issues I’ve realized about breath holding spells.

1. They’ll appear to be seizures, however they’re not. Learn extra on them right here and speak to your youngster’s physician, however breath holding spells can look loads like a seizure, however they’re truly an involuntary response to a sudden occasion that modifications their respiratory sample, coronary heart fee, and blood strain ranges, which makes them faint.

2. They’re very scary within the second, however they don’t damage your youngster. Anticipate in extraordinarily uncommon instances, after they faint their physique takes over and so they begin respiratory robotically.

3. They don’t imply to do it. Once more, it’s an involuntary response to one thing that upsets them like having one thing taken away, being pissed off, being advised they’ll’t do one thing, and so forth.

4. They’re not unusual. They occur in wholesome youngsters. Some youngsters have them solely every year; others extra typically (even a number of instances a day).

5. Breath holding expertise are commonest in 2-year-olds. So, commonest in toddlers, who’re probably the most susceptible to getting upset over random issues.

6. Establish your youngster’s indicators and triggers. For us, we all know that when our daughter begins to “silent cry,” that we have to remind her to breathe and watch her very carefully. However, it’s additionally useful to concentrate to conditions when your kiddo is most certainly to turn out to be upset — AKA, after they’re hungry, drained, or just need to do one thing they’ll’t do (for us, ours desires to look at the Disney Quick “Lava” a LOT — and when she will’t … remember!).

5. Have methods in place. Remind them to breathe — and provides them prompts like blowing bubbles or blowing out birthday candles. In the event that they don’t reply to that, blow of their face. Generally this will shake them out of it. In the event that they do faint, be certain the world is obvious, have your telephone available, and lie them on their aspect to maximise blood movement. If a breath holding spell lasts greater than a minute, name 911. If it lasts greater than three minutes, begin CPR. (And, if you happen to don’t know tips on how to do CPR on slightly one, get CPR licensed.)

6. Inform your caregivers ASAP. Describe the incident in writing, together with any related particulars for care together with what triggered the spell, how they acted, and what caregivers ought to do.

7. Rule every thing else out. Your pediatrician ought to speak to you about different doable underlying circumstances like a household historical past of seizures, cardiac points, and so forth. Make certain to get every thing checked out, simply in case.

8. Children outgrow them. That is the most effective information of all! By the ages of 6 or 7, most youngsters develop out of breath holding spells. Whew!

Learn extra about breath holding spells on WebMD right here.

I’m sharing this so as to assist another dad and mom who’ve a toddler who does this — and, I’m additionally seeking to hear your experiences with it. That first time is SO scary, and it’s loopy to assume that one thing that’s truly fairly benign may be so traumatizing if you happen to don’t know what it’s. In case your kiddo has carried out this, how typically have they got spells? When did they develop out of it? Would love to listen to the way it has affected you and your loved ones! –Jenn

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